Query Xcode for installed macOS SDKs instead of path parsing

[jmagman]

Instead of parsing the contents of Xcode.app/Contents/Developer/Platforms/MacOSX.platform/Developer/SDKs, parse xcodebuild -showsdks -json to query which SDKs are installed.

Fixes flutter/flutter#94513

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